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一边是儿子一边是书籍之3——how to say no to your toddler

Summary

Proving that the terrible twos don't have to be all that terrible, How to Say No to Your Toddler offers Mom and Dad lifesaving advice to ease current as well as future behavior problems with their child.

读后感：

1、导致孩子misbehaviord 的主要原因：overtired. Her/his behavior will improve dramatically after you improve her/his sleep habits.

2、对于非睡眠原因导致的misbehavior，处理办法：time-out.

这本书2003年第一版。但是书中谈到的这种处理办法和导致的原因现在已经被广泛的应用到实际的育儿过程当中。作者是个有25年经验以上的儿科医生——Will Wilkoff.开篇第一页他就写到：To my parents, who gave me the freedom to explore and the limits to keep me safe.这句话非常温暖人心！

发布于2008年02月27日 03:51 | 评论数(3) 阅读数(185) 读书读书！

击鼓传花

击鼓传花游戏传到我这啦，我是从【笑笑宝贝（cuixiaoxiao2008）】家接到。。

游戏介绍：这是博客里流行的击鼓传花游戏，传给谁谁就得接着，否则就得挨罚。请认真对待，不要怕暴露隐私。

1.被点到名字的要在自己博客里写下自己的答案，然后去掉第一个问题，再加上一个问题，仍然组成4个问题，传给其他10个人，列出10个需要回答问题的人的名字，还要到这10个人的博客里留言通知对方——你被点名了，被点名者不得拒绝回答问题，完成游戏的人将会永远得到大家的祝福。

2.这10个人要在自己的博客里注明是从哪里接到题的，并且再想一个题传给其他10个人，让游戏继续下去，不得回传。被点到名字的人将得到大家的祝福，并且所有的美丽愿望都会在不久的以后实现.后天开始将是24小时,幸福ing 。

以下是回答的问题：

1) 宝宝不喜欢吃水果怎么办?

不要强求，顺其自然。还可以做水果粥。宝宝今天不爱吃的食物不意味着明天不爱吃。

2) 你家宝宝在白天玩累的情况下夜里宝宝会说梦话或夜哭吗?

不会说梦话，夜哭有可能。因为过于疲倦对于孩子的休息并不利，所以作为家长要监控好孩子一天的活动量，在睡前尽量和孩子做一些平静情绪的活动。

Don't be tempted to keep your baby going all day in hope that she/he will sleep continuously through the night. The more tired she/he is , the less easy she/he will find it to relax into a good sleep pattern.

3) 宝宝不喜欢喝白开水怎么办?

If she refuses water, you know she's not thirsty. She just wants somethong sweet. 但我认为可以喝果汁，然后果汁的浓度逐渐降低，逐渐向白开水的方向努力。

4)婴幼儿便秘该怎么办？

多吃水果及高纤维的蔬菜，主食多吃grain or whole wheat的东西。慢慢会有所改善。

以下是新的问题：

你家宝宝在白天玩累的情况下夜里宝宝会说梦话或夜哭吗?
宝宝不喜欢喝白开水怎么办?
婴幼儿便秘该怎么办？
如何才能让宝宝爱喝牛奶？

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发布于2008年02月22日 04:40 | 评论数(22) 阅读数(236) 我的文章

有收藏价值的几个网站

在我看完Parenting a toddler后，发现该书还推荐了几个不错的网站，目前没有逐一的去看，先收藏下来，有时间的时候一定会看。

Internet sites

ABC's of Parenting

www.abcparenting.com ( Provides list and reviews of Internet sites about toddlers)

Canadian Parents Online

www.canadianparents.com/preschool/index.htm (Offers advice and articles on the steps and stages of toddlers, as well as chat and web boards)

Pampers Parenting Institute

www.totalbabycare.com/toddler(Provides a variety of articles on topics related to raising a toddler)

University of Illinois Extension:Dealing with toddlers

www.urbanext.uiuc.edu/toddlers (contains helpful advice for several situations that parents of toddlers face)

Your amazing baby

www.amazingbaby.com (has information on different development areas from birth to age 2)

Canadian Institute of Child Health

www.cich.ca

Zero to three: national center for infants, toddlers, and families

www.zerotothree.org

发布于2008年02月19日 12:36 | 评论数(5) 阅读数(281) 我的文章

一边是儿子一边是书籍之2——parenting a toddler

自己给自己鼓掌了！因为已经继续到之2了！

这次看的是Parenting a Toddler, by Kristin Thoennes Keller. 这本书看起来太爽了，图文并茂，并且只有60多页，很容易就看完了！！

Summary: Provides information on child development and advice on how to care for a child from twelve to twenty-four months of age, including facts about play activities, discipline, feeding, toilet training, safety, and health care.

读后感：挺不错的，给了一些建议。当然，由于太短，所以都不能进行详述，也没有实例。不过对于toddler可能发生的事情倒是有了宏观上的认识。同一系列的书还有几本，有时间的时候一定借过来统统看一遍，反正估计都不长。

Disciplining Young Children

Health care for infants and toddler

Parenting an infant(我就不用看了，孩子大了)

同时书里自己还推荐了further reading

what to expect the toddler years(借过，不太感兴趣，并且这本书是1996年出版的，感觉太老了)

teen fathers: getting involved（这个teen我目前都无法确认到底是什么意思。）

teen mothers: raising a baby

发布于2008年02月19日 04:23 | 评论数(3) 阅读数(189) 读书读书！

一边是儿子一边是书籍之1——Ben and the sudden too-big family

决定在带孩子的同时要做点正事，所以开始看书了！虽然儿子看到我看书时会跑过来把我的书狠狠的扔到地毯上，但是总还是能看点的。我要认真的数下来，看我到底看了几本！

现在是之1：

Ben and the sudden too-big family

这本书用了三天的时间看完的。

Ben Mitchell's philosophy that some things in life are all right and some things are not all right holds true in this slice-of-life novel, as Rodowsky (That Fernhill Summer) comically depicts how the world of her 10-year-old protagonist is turned upside down when he becomes part of a sudden, too big family. Ben, whose birth mother died when he was a baby, thinks it is cool that his father is marrying Casey, the proprietor of a bakeshop, but that's before he realizes how many new people are destined to disrupt his contentedly quiet life. Ben is soon overwhelmed by the aunts, uncles and cousins who are now part of his family. And to make things more complicated, his father and Casey decide to adopt a baby from China. Some events like traveling overseas to pick up baby Maudie Mingmei turn out to be exciting for Ben, while other occurrences (such as having to vacation with his new relatives instead of attending soccer camp) are not as fun. Ben's misgivings about being embraced (figuratively and literally) by relatives whom he barely knows will draw sympathy from readers, as will his misfortune at getting stuck having to entertain the least appealing member of his new family gloomy Great Aunt Nora at a family reunion. Encapsulating the noise, chaos, mess and love that are all parts of being in a large family, this novel shows how some not all right predicaments turn out all right in the end. Ages 10-up.

读后感：这外国的小孩为人处世的方式是和中国孩子有些不同。所以类似的书以后再找几本再看看！

发布于2008年02月15日 12:41 | 评论数(7) 阅读数(197) 读书读书！

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